One recent study revealed that spanking is the 1 kinky sex act that women secretly want to try. Seriously — for most women, spanking is a huge turn-on. But if you've never tried it before, how do you start experimenting in a way that won't scare her away?
Sure, there are a lot of sex toys and sex games you can buy to enhance your sex life. But you may be overlooking one of the best aphrodisiac tools at your disposal: your rear end. The truth is, when it comes to exploring your sexual desires, erotic spanking is the best place to start.
One makes you want to sprint away like an Olympic contender and call social services. Think of some other bedroom antics that create pain: pulling hair, running nails down the back, biting, etc. And not just physical pain but emotional and social discomfort as well - all for the purpose of re-balancing our bodies and trying to make us feel good again.
Sex is a funny thing. It exists in this strange little space where you get to say and do things that could get you beat up and banned from mostly anywhere else. Ever try spanking someone because they cut you in line at the grocery store?
I have always fantasised about being spanked. Then one day, several years ago, my girlfriend gave me a few playful smacks on the bottom. I dared her to put me across her knee.
Image by WAA via Stocksy. Inarchaeologist Carlo Maurilio Lerici descended into tombs in the old town of Tarquinia, a necropolis of the refined Etruscan civilization that inhabited ancient Italy from about BC until its assimilation into the Roman Republic in the late 4th century BC. Aside from bodies, he found countless badly damaged frescos depicting comical male boxers, sexualized female dancers, and most notably, in The Tomb of the Floggingsone in which an unclothed woman is bent over and holding the hips of a smiling bearded man while a young man whips her ass from behind—the first discovered example of erotic spanking.
Spanking, as part of sexual play, occurs when a person slaps a sex partner with an open hand or an object to heighten sexual arousal for one or both parties. Spanking is usually enjoyed by those who find sexual pleasure in pain. It can be done during foreplay or intercourse. A person can spank with an open hand or a wide variety of objects including a paddle, a whip, or a cane.
I 'd be lying if I said I didn't love a good spanking. I'm sure you've quickly surmised this thorny little detail, but I do mean spanking in a sexual way. Just a flat palm and a willingness to explore is all you need for this sado-masochistic activity —unless you're into paddles and floggers and if so, good on you, soldier.