If this is the case, I hope Lisa had him fired. Maybe because I am not an entitled a-hole, but who in their right mind says that to someone? Rappaport seems likely, or Van Damme. For some reason, I thought of Fisher Stevens when I read this. I go with the Rappoport guy too. Better not be Hank Azaria or Rudd, though they were more that just a guest star. He presumably knew Lisa at that point, so it would have been weird for him to notice a change in appearance anyway.
Iris. Age: 22.
I could imagine a snotty woman saying it just as much.
Jolie. Age: 21.
Lisa Kudrow: Phoebe Buffay
This stuff happens all the time, in every industry. I think Phoebe dated about 10 other not very famous guys on screen over the course of the show. And why do people assume it was a man..