Why do we stay in these less than fulfilling, dead-end relationships? We allow our emotions to cloud our judgment. We make excuses to stick around because it feels good to have someone around, no matter how absent the person is when you're together. Granted, I can't speak for every relationship out there. In many circumstances, there is an array of reasons behind the premature status of your relationship.
As a Quaternary geologist my main interest is to learn more about what has occurred during the ice ages and ice-free phases of the Quaternary period, to understand the interplay between ice, ocean, land and atmosphere, how landscapes have developed and environments have changed, mainly during the last years.
And I get it, it really might feel like an encouraging thing to say. The underlying meaning is, "I think you're awesome just the way you are, and others will, too. The very thing that's attractive about "being yourself" is that you are not aware of yourself when you're in that state. The advice to "just be yourself" then has the opposite effect, since it puts your attention back on you -- exactly where you don't want it! Try this instead: The whole point of going on a date is to get to know someone else, not to think about you.
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